People occasionally find this blog because they want to know why talk show host, public speaker, author, and columnist Dennis Prager has been divorced twice.
I don't know why, other than the fact that he married.
You can't be divorced if you never marry.
These days, it sounds like he's happy in his third marriage, which, if it holds, will beat the odds.
You can read his columns mentioning marriage, view Prager University videos about marriage and female-male interactions, and listen to his weekly "male/female" hour to get some clues, but I've done those things and I really don't know why he's twice divorced. Maybe he wanted more sex. Maybe he was too kinky. Maybe his exes couldn't abide his honesty that husbands still enjoy looking at other women. Don't know.
If I recall correctly, he sees marriage as a contract (as does the law, by the way, but Prager thinks it has some different terms than the law), and if one spouse refuses to live up to the contract, divorce is not only acceptable, but often the right thing to do.
I don't know if he filed or his two ex-wives filed.
Maybe he doesn't think it is fair to talk about why his marriages ended, given that his ex-wives don't have the media soapboxes he does. Maybe he's ashamed or embarrassed. Or maybe he thinks he's entitled to a private life, which he is.
Still, I am curious and so are others. My curiosity is based on his consistent insistence that a guy must marry to be a man and his marriage-selling. It sure would be interesting to know why his two divorces happened and what the terms were.
As a bit of an aside, he maintains that divorce isn't really bad for the children, it is about how the spouses-then-ex-spouses behave that an be bad. But by the same logic, marriage doesn't make a man mature or better. It is how he behaves. So men can display all of the character traits he values without signing a bad state contract.
A look at the world from a sometimes sarcastic, tongue-in-cheek, decidedly American male perspective. Lately, this blog has been mostly about gender issues, dating, marriage, divorce, sex, and parenting via analyzing talk radio, advice columns, news stories, religion, and pop culture in general. I often challenge common platitudes, arguments. and subcultural elements perpetuated by fellow Evangelicals, social conservatives. Read at your own risk.
Tuesday, April 21, 2020
Monday, April 13, 2020
An Unique Escape Hatch For Engaged Men
Sir, are you engaged to be married?
The National Emergency and global pandemic we're dealing with right now gives you an unique escape hatch to avoid marriage, especially if your wedding is scheduled and rapidly approaching.
Service providers are shutting down. Venues are closing down. People aren't traveling.
How can you have or even plan a wedding in these circumstances?
Tell your fiancée that the wedding needs to be delayed. Most likely, she will agree, because she wants the big party, and the series of associated parties, and those just can't happen with things like this.
Now, there's a chance she'll say she wants to go to the courthouse or the county office and have a small legal ceremony, and she will probably include that the big formal wedding, or at least reception, can be later.
Try to convince her that it would be best to wait and keep the legal wedding as the same thing as the big ceremony.
Then, while the wedding is "delayed," you can plan your escape. No, you can't keep the relationship. She's going to want to get married.
Desperate situations call for desperate measures.
The National Emergency and global pandemic we're dealing with right now gives you an unique escape hatch to avoid marriage, especially if your wedding is scheduled and rapidly approaching.
Service providers are shutting down. Venues are closing down. People aren't traveling.
How can you have or even plan a wedding in these circumstances?
Tell your fiancée that the wedding needs to be delayed. Most likely, she will agree, because she wants the big party, and the series of associated parties, and those just can't happen with things like this.
Now, there's a chance she'll say she wants to go to the courthouse or the county office and have a small legal ceremony, and she will probably include that the big formal wedding, or at least reception, can be later.
Try to convince her that it would be best to wait and keep the legal wedding as the same thing as the big ceremony.
Then, while the wedding is "delayed," you can plan your escape. No, you can't keep the relationship. She's going to want to get married.
Desperate situations call for desperate measures.
Thursday, April 02, 2020
Congrats to the Guys Who Avoided the Prom and Promposals
If you were enjoying your time in high school, you might be bummed that it was abruptly ended for you, especially if you were a Senior.
But guys, at least you have avoided The Prom and, hopefully, an embarrassing Promposal.
You're better off.
But guys, at least you have avoided The Prom and, hopefully, an embarrassing Promposal.
You're better off.
Labels:
attention whoring,
dating,
high school,
prom,
school,
teens
Wednesday, April 01, 2020
Shut In
Today, Dennis Prager wondered on his radio program if the shutdown, and having to stay home, is causing unmarried guys to think they should've married.
I'm confident far more husbands are regretting that they married than there are unmarried guys wishing they were married.
I would be much better off right now if I was living alone.
Meanwhile, on yesterday's Dr. Laura show, there was a woman complaining that with the shutdown, her husband wanted too much sex.
Stay free, guys.
I'm confident far more husbands are regretting that they married than there are unmarried guys wishing they were married.
I would be much better off right now if I was living alone.
Meanwhile, on yesterday's Dr. Laura show, there was a woman complaining that with the shutdown, her husband wanted too much sex.
Stay free, guys.
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