What Do I Mean By Free Men?

I like using the term "Free Men."

What do I mean by that?

For the purposes of this blog and related communications, Free Men are men who are free of legal and financial entanglements with women.

Ideally, they are also free of social bondage to women and do not have any dependent children, especially not children over which a woman has any parental rights. 

A Free Man is, at the very least:

• Unmarried
  
  
• Residing independently from women
  
  
• Without legal or financial obligations with women, such as a cosign for a loan or account, co-ownership of property or anything else of significant value, a mortgage or rental agreement, paying child support, paying alimony or palimony. A woman should not have access to your home or finances; she should not be on a lease or rental agreement with you and should have no ownership rights over any home you own. You should never impregnate a woman or donate sperm or in any way look after or pay for her child (such as with a single mother who wants to be your "friend" or girlfriend.)
  
  
• Unrestrained by any agreement to exclusivity with a woman

Usually, he's also going to be childfree.

If you see the same woman regularly, that's fine, but never indicate you'll be (or are) exclusive with her, don't believe she's exclusive to you no matter what she says, assume she can get pregnant no matter what she says, never bring her back to your place, never spend more than $40 on a date with her (zero or having her pay is optimal), and it's a good idea to avoid seeing her more than once per week. Ideally, she shouldn't know your real address, where you really work, and your real name. 

The financial independence doesn't mean you can't have popular investments (stocks, mutual funds) in which women are also invested or financial industry female professionals are involved. I'm talking about not having a wife or girlfriend who is on those accounts with you.

The living arrangements have almost no exceptions, but one of the exceptions would be to look after your grandmother, mother, sister, aunt, etc. That's family. If they were abusive, don't bother. You're not obligated to help them. But if they were decent people, it's an exception; just don't let anyone unjustly take advantage of you.

Ideally, a Free Man would also have work (if he still needs to work) that isn't dependent on a woman as an owner, boss, or co-worker, but there can be exceptions. However, he should have no social interaction with those women at all; it should be an entirely professional association. If you've built up a business of your own, avoid letting a woman have control of it as long as you're an involved owner. If you don't need the business any more and you've found a woman to manage it who does a good job, fine, but you will probably be better off just selling it to her or someone else.

Basically, free men get to make decisions about their life independent of what any woman would say about it, and get to live their life how they want it, not catering to the whims or demands of a woman.

Free men tend to earn more than they spend, and plan, budget, save, invest, and insure so that they have more freedom in their life. 

Free men have their choice of women, and should avoid mothers of minor, dependent, or problematic children.

If you don't live as a Free Man, then you're needlessly limiting your life, subjecting yourself to enormous extra costs, unnecessarily risking damages, and giving up power and control over your life to irrational creatures. 

Stay free.

Just say NO to giving up your freedom to a woman.