One of the main points of this blog is to urge most men to avoid legally marrying.
But what if you want to be a father?
Do you REALLY want to BE a father?
Do you really want to be a father, or is it that you have your religion, your family and/or your friends, or a woman you're with pressuring you? Do you really want to be a father or do you want the mistaken FANTASY of fatherhood? Unless you use a bought egg and a rented womb, fatherhood will forever tie you to a woman, no matter how terribly she acts or treats you. Most women today don't have both the desire and understanding to truly be good mothers, and are even less prepared to be good partners.
We hear all of the time that statistics/studies indicate children of legally married parents are better off, and so you should legally marry if you want to raise children.
But this is misleading.
