What matters is:
1) She's of age.
2) She turns you on and will do what you want.
3) She's not "too much work."
4) She doesn't have a history of making allegations about sexual assault, physical abuse, harassment, stalking, etc. or doing those things herself. You don't need to be the target of her next round of allegations, or to be stalked, harassed, or abused yourself.
5) She won't give you a serious STD.
6) She drinks.
7) She's childfree.
8) She has no nexus to your work (unless you don't care about your job) or your family.
8) She has no nexus to your work (unless you don't care about your job) or your family.
9) She is not a virgin.
10) [Insert your other requirements here.]
Remember, these women don't need to be marriage - or even girlfriend - material, so that opens up the possibilities. It doesn't matter if they're dating other men. Assume they are, no matter what they say. It doesn't matter if they lie (except for certain false allegations). It doesn't matter what age they are, as long as they are adults. She can have debt, a bad job or even no job, whatever. She can claim she's unable to have children. She can be a terrible conversationalist and dumb as a post. She can be politically opposite from you (don't let her know!) You're not going to be introducing her to your family, friends, or coworkers, or living with her, or making babies with her, or marrying her, or sharing hobbies with her so none of that matters.
Avoid:
Do not think a woman is out of your league. Highly attractive women often are insecure or don't think all that well of themselves, and if your running game persona is wealthy or powerful enough, no woman who is open to a hookup is out of your league. You should usually seek women who are highly attractive, 18/21-25 years age, and who are looking for a good time. If you truly have a better time with older women, then go for those, but they are more likely to be looking to get pregnant or snag a husband, or lack enthusiasm.
10) [Insert your other requirements here.]
Remember, these women don't need to be marriage - or even girlfriend - material, so that opens up the possibilities. It doesn't matter if they're dating other men. Assume they are, no matter what they say. It doesn't matter if they lie (except for certain false allegations). It doesn't matter what age they are, as long as they are adults. She can have debt, a bad job or even no job, whatever. She can claim she's unable to have children. She can be a terrible conversationalist and dumb as a post. She can be politically opposite from you (don't let her know!) You're not going to be introducing her to your family, friends, or coworkers, or living with her, or making babies with her, or marrying her, or sharing hobbies with her so none of that matters.
Avoid:
1) Mothers. They are limited in availability, more likely to make you a father, and tend to be more expensive.
2) Women looking to become mothers (unless you have an intact vasectomy).
2) Women looking to become mothers (unless you have an intact vasectomy).
3) Teetotalers. Women who are teetotalers are less likely to get affectionate with you.
4) Virgins. Sex is a learned skill. You want a woman who craves and enjoys sex. If you "take her virginity" she will be very clingy, and it will probably take a lot of work to get there and it won't be great sex.
5) Women involved in "purity" or chastity programs or movements.
6) Obese women. They are more likely to want a full dinner on your dollar, have an attitude you don't want, and contraception is less likely to be effective.
7) Junkies (especially of the needle use variety). More likely to treat you like a walking wallet or otherwise rely on you for services, more likely to give you a disease.
8) Women with poor hygiene and/or communicable diseases.
9) Sex workers (like strippers). They are experts at separating men from their money. Running game is about keeping the amount of money you spend on women to a minimum.
5) Women involved in "purity" or chastity programs or movements.
6) Obese women. They are more likely to want a full dinner on your dollar, have an attitude you don't want, and contraception is less likely to be effective.
7) Junkies (especially of the needle use variety). More likely to treat you like a walking wallet or otherwise rely on you for services, more likely to give you a disease.
8) Women with poor hygiene and/or communicable diseases.
9) Sex workers (like strippers). They are experts at separating men from their money. Running game is about keeping the amount of money you spend on women to a minimum.
10) Women with violent, possessive (ex) husbands/boyfriends or stalkers.
11) Violent, destructive, or vindictive women.
12) Women with a nexus to your job (unless you don't care about your job) or your family.
13) Women who cause scenes in public, are drama queens, or are otherwise too much work.
Do not think a woman is out of your league. Highly attractive women often are insecure or don't think all that well of themselves, and if your running game persona is wealthy or powerful enough, no woman who is open to a hookup is out of your league. You should usually seek women who are highly attractive, 18/21-25 years age, and who are looking for a good time. If you truly have a better time with older women, then go for those, but they are more likely to be looking to get pregnant or snag a husband, or lack enthusiasm.
Less attractive, overweight, older women are OK if you're in a slump.
Where are these women? Many places. Think of where attractive women will be but may not be in groups. You can run into them in the supermarket.
You can try hookup apps or websites, but any real, attractive women there are constantly bombarded by countless guys. If you can find an app or site that works for you with minimal effort and time on your part, that's great.
College area bars can be good, though if you're a student on that campus you need to be careful because guys can get kicked out of school if she later decides she wants to hurt you.
Hotel lobby bars can be excellent, especially near airports or convention centers. Just watch out for sex workers. These are places women who are visiting from out of town are likely to have a room upstairs and be looking for a good time, even a good time they would be too inhibited to try back home.
We can get more into how to close the deal in other entries. But you don't want to look desperate. In the bars, the best thing to do is sit and watch the television or something on your phone, or talk with the bartender, and look like you're waiting for a buddy to meet up with you (and that will be your story if someone asks). Hot women hate to be ignored, and if you do this enough, eventually you'll get hot women approaching you. Even if they mention it, DO NOT buy them drinks, especially if she is there with others. Tell her you don't buy drinks for women you don't know (if a woman specifically came to the bar to meet you, yes, you buy drinks for her, but not a "new" woman who approaches you in a bar). Every guy there might buy her a drink. If you don't "need to" buy her a drink, she might wonder what's different about you. From there, you want to move things back to her room or her place as soon as possible.
NOTE: Be sure to treat and tip staff well. If you don't drink, you can privately tell the bartender or server you want (shot) glasses full of things that LOOK like alcoholic drinks, but aren't. That's for YOU to drink, not her. You want women who drink, even if you don't.
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