Guys, I’m warning you again, with New Year’s Eve almost here:
DON’T MARRY.
Do not propose.
Don’t ring in the New Year with a woman who is likely thinking of your as husband material.
It’s not too late to call off those plans, even if you’re reading this on the 31st.
Save your money. Don’t be spending it on trying to impress a woman or to pay for her entertainment.
Nights like NYE are nights you should either be with buddies, or with your parents/siblings, or with a “new” date who is sad she doesn’t have a boyfriend, fiancé, or husband ringing in the New Year with her and will look to make it a fun night with you.
Don't do something foolish and start thinking there is "the one" to whom you should hand over your freedom. Don't be so ignorant, delusional, or masochistic that you're thinking you want to be exclusive with a woman.
Don't do something foolish and start thinking there is "the one" to whom you should hand over your freedom. Don't be so ignorant, delusional, or masochistic that you're thinking you want to be exclusive with a woman.
For all of you men who are not currently married, this is one of those times of the year family and certain cultural elements push you to marry.
One way is trying to make it seem like everybody gets married, that marriage should be your goal, and that only losers don’t marry.
Jewelry companies run ads promoting the ridiculous notion that engagement rings make perfect holiday gifts. There are legal reasons why that’s a terrible idea.
Don’t fall for the trap.
If you’re engaged, don’t let the manipulations during this time of year push you into signing a terrible state contract (marrying).
Nor should you make any large purchases for, or with a woman. Want to buy something for your mother? Go ahead. But not a fiancée, not a girlfriend, or any other woman you’ve been seeing.
Don’t propose. Don’t co-sign a lease or mortgage or anything. Don’t move in with a woman or let her move in with you.
Stay free.
Follow the tags for this post, like “Free Men” and “Marriage Strike” and “Running Game” to be reminded why you should stay free and how to make the most of this time of year.
As always, feel free to comment.
It's
possible you either have maintained a roster and bullpen of women. It's
also possible you have acquired more, even if just through online
communications.
Whatever is the case, don't let the pandemic
conditions cause you to do something foolish and start thinking
there is "the one" to whom you should hand over your freedom. As much
tragedy as there has been, the pandemic will ultimately be a
bump in the road of life. Don't be so ignorant, delusional, or masochistic that you're thinking you want to be exclusive with a woman.
It's
possible you either have maintained a roster and bullpen of women. It's
also possible you have acquired more, even if just through online
communications.
Whatever is the case, don't let the pandemic
conditions cause you to do something foolish and start thinking
there is "the one" to whom you should hand over your freedom. As much
tragedy as there has been, the pandemic will ultimately be a
bump in the road of life. Don't be so ignorant, delusional, or masochistic that you're thinking you want to be exclusive with a woman.
