I'm for harm reduction.
Most married men want sex more than their wife, and many of them get rejected, some more often than others. Now, many men in that situation turn to adult media (porn), as we know they should never pester their wife. However, considering everything I've seen from people and organizations like Laila Mickelwait, Justice Defense Fund, Exodus Cry, Fight the New Drug, No Fap, Your Brain on Born, Daily Wire, National Center on Sexual Exploitation, churches I have attended, and so many more, - it's clearly less harmful to have an affair with someone you know, like a neighbor.
Here, I'll demonstrate:
Porn: Addictive
Affair: Not addictive
Porn: Often necessitates time in rehab
Affair: Need for rehab much less likely
Porn: Causes some men to spend hours and hours in isolation
Affair: Usually doesn't take up that much time and isn't in isolation
Porn: Multi-billion dollar industry
Affair: Eh, maybe some gifts here and there
Porn: Rots brains
Affair: Doesn't rot brains
Porn: Causes sex trafficking
Affair: Doesn't cause trafficking
Porn: Causes unrealistic expectations in young men
Affair: Causes no expectations in any other young men
Porn: Damaging to real sex
Affair: Is real sex
Porn: Is filmed rape
Affair: Not filmed, not rape
Porn: Supports "revenge" porn, uploaded nonconsensually
Affair: Doesn't support revenge porn
Porn: You can't be sure the performers consented
Affair: You won't be doing anything without her consent
Porn: You can't tell if the performers are really adults
Affair: You know she's an adult
Porn: Is violence
Affair: Not violence
Porn: Turns people into rapists and serial killers
Affair: Doesn't turn people into rapists and serial killers
Porn: Causes ED
Affair: Doesn't cause ED
Porn: Performers are abused
Affair: You won't abuse her
Porn: Performers get injured
Affair: You won't injure her
Porn: She's only doing it because she's desperate for money
Affair: Don't give her money so you are making sure she just wants sex for the sake of having sex
Porn: Some performers abuse substances
Affair: You can choose to only have an affair with someone who is sober
Porn: Kids find it
Affair: You won't let that happen
Porn: Constant novelty
Affair: Just one person
Since I'm reliably assured that porn is "adultery, infidelity, cheating" and many ministries I know of spend far more time talking about the evils of porn than having sex with a neighbor, and considering everything I've observed as stated above, clearly the less harmful option is to have an affair, especially if it avoids marital rape.
...Right?
(I've never had an affair and I don't advise it.)
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