Women Despise Husbands

Women despise husbands. Not all, sure, but most. Actually, women despise men, but a Free Man is at least not paying a woman directly so that she can loathe him in particular, so that's why I am focusing on husbands.

Yet more proof of this was displayed for the world to see on Twitter recently (December 24, 2021).

Someone with the handle "TF1o1" with the Twitter address @NotThe12GAF asked:

Serious question: Where did this notion come from that all our grandmas & great grandmas was married and miserable?

Where did this notion come from they were diminished and oppressed by their husbands?

 

There were so many replies and quote tweets I can't take the time to quote more than a tiny fraction of them here, but scrolling through, these are typical:

"Lol….from their literal mouths(both nanas) & for one nana I literally watched the unhappiness even as a child"

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"It’s a common statement shared with women in the trenches when we’re all in a safe space amongst each other. Additionally, it cannot be overstated or overlooked that traditionally/stereotypically family secrets are NOT shared with men to protect their egos and emotions."

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"I’m not sure what part of ‘our grandmas told us,’ is that hard to understand. As girls, we sat at their knees and they used their own words to tell us about their trials in hopes we wouldn’t suffer the same in relationships. They said them, not all."

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"My grandmother once poured hot oil in my grandfather's ear while he slept causing him to go partially deaf. Does that SOUND happy to you?"

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"I watched my great grandparents marriage, and heard my grandma explain why she moved heaven, hell and everything in between to divorce my grandpa. 'Men and babies are overrated, hold off on both as long as you possibly can'."

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"my granny actually told/still tells me stories about how miserable she was being married to my granddad. It came directly from HER."

Remember this the next time Dr. Laura asks "Would your grandfather act this way?" Grandpa lived in a different era.

Guys, don't do this to women. Don't be a husband! Respect a woman’s independence, strength, and dreams.

The quotes above reflect what women really think about husbands, fathers, and grandfathers.

Believe women!

Don't ruin a woman's life by marrying her.

"They are only talking about abusive husbands." Are they though? I'm sure some of those men were truly abusive, but I'd bet good money that many of them weren't. They were being decent men, decent husbands, and the delusional perspective of the women was that they were somehow mistreated. It's kind of like when someone who sits around being lazy and getting high all of the time thinks that someone else being rich is proof that they have been wronged. If these women could have switched places with their husbands, they might have gotten some understanding that he was doing a lot for her and protecting her from all sorts of stuff, and her lot in life actually wasn't so bad.

"Be a better husband." Why be a husband at all, though? And women do still talk about good husbands that way. Some of them admit he was a good husband after he's gone.

Don't subject women to misogyny, manspreading, or mansplaining. Stay away from them as much as possible.

Women will marry you even if they despise you and can't stand you. She's telling her friends, her family, her coworkers, her hairstylist, her diary how annoying and irritating you are to her, what all your shortcomings are, everything you do that she thinks is wrong. If your wife or girlfriend tells you about how terrible her sister's or friend's husband or boyfriend is, guess what? Your wife or girlfriend is telling her sister or friends negative things about you.

Ever notice how every ex (boyfriend/husband) was/is a jerk?

Women hate being wives. They like being supported; they like having someone else deal with the consequences of their mistakes or bad choices, someone else paying their way. That's why the Democratic Party has marketing materials targeted towards promising these things to (unmarried) women, with nary a man in sight when they narrate a woman's life under their paradigm. Husbands serve their wives. No husband? Big Daddy Government will be your husband. Women like weddings because they are all about them. Me me me! My special day! A series of parties all about her. They want to be brides. But they hate being wives.

Husbands are supposed to be there, in the minds of women, to be a wallet, a butler/errand boy, bodyguard, handyman, scapegoat, attention-giver, and maybe a sperm donor or cuck. That's it. A husband having his own agenda, his own needs and desires that aren't her delusions is not allowed.

Look at how men are portrayed in advertisements. We are portrayed negatively in many different ways, in ad after ad after ad. Why? Because it appeals to women. Women make most of the purchasing decisions.

Have you ever heard or read someone trying to discourage men from watching porn or going to a strip club or a prostitute by saying something like "If you could hear what those women say about men when men aren't around. you'd realize they don't like you." It's true. But it's true for women in general. At least the sex worker is upfront about the nature of their interaction.

You've probably heard some women say that they are happy to be married, happy to be wives, and that they love and admire their husbands. A few of them might be saying that sincerely. Some of them are lying, or trying to convince themselves. Many others will feel differently in a few years. Think I'm wrong? Keep in mind "women despise husbands" when you see how married people interact, and it'll make sense of their interaction. Some of those husbands, in vain, constantly try to get her not to despise him.

DO NOT SUBJECT A WOMAN TO THIS.

Men, let's get the rates of 1) domestic violence, and 2) unhappy wives down to ZERO. Do not marry! Live alone!