Thursday, February 13, 2014

It's the Middle of February

Here we are again. It's another Valentine's Day.

Fortunately for me, my wife likes to celebrate a different day, as one of our anniversaries falls close to February 14.

It's my year to plan.

Hey, I know, how about we plan a nice session of "How Did Our Sex Life Deteriorate To Doing It Once Every Two Weeks and You Wanting to Get It Over With More Quickly?"

Ah yes. Probably has something to do with one or more of the many, many medications she takes.

Which is one big reason I didn't want a wife who needed such medications.

Hey, let's go out on a date and... talk about the kids. Because what else do we have going on in our lives?


  1. I would vote for ANY politician who promised to abolish this sick "holiday", regardless of their political affiliation.

  2. Anonymous6:23 AM

    Ken - I've gome through some of your posts to get a fair idea of the state of your marriage. You seem to be aware of some manosphere concepts but you don't seem to be putting them into practice.
    Why don't you try upping your game? I can tell from personal experience that it will improve your marriage.
    You should not be afraid of your wife. You should be in charge of the marriage; sex should be something you have whenever you want it. Your wife should not have the right to dole out or withhold sex - you should be the master of the house.

    Essentially, this requires a shift in your mental framework. Go through game blogs to understand core game concepts - heartiste, mmsl etc and apply them to your marriage.

    One basic mistake

  3. Thank you for your comment. I get the impression you had more to write. I have been under the the mindset that as far as getting what I want, that went out the window when I married and had kids. Game Over. If I had chosen the right woman, things would be good. That's the mindset I've been operating under, because I have been thinking that the law and social climate of our day give her all of the power, which is why men should not marry in the first place. Perhaps I need a major shift in my thinking. I appreciate the feedback. Thanks!


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