Another in a Long Line of Articles Confirming What We Already Knew

In the opening of her Tuesday, February 7, 2023 program, Dr. Laura opened up reading from and adding to an essay written by a "BJ Foster." Dr. Laura didn't want to say the initials "BJ," even though she says penis, vagina, ejaculate, whore, hump, orgasm throughout her programs. Anyway the essay is "Five Reasons Your Wife Doesn't Want Sex."

We already know why.

Either she doesn't want it or she wants to punish or manipulate us.

When I heard what the topic was, this is what I wrote:

-They already have you
-They aren't attracted to you
-They don't have the same drive
-Everything kills their moods
-Hormonal shifts

You'll see how right I got it.

Dr. Laura said the essay was missing the biggest reason: You're not good at lovemaking.

Keep in mind, Dr. Laura shames sex before/outside of marriage. Following her rules means someone will be 30-35 before they have sex for the first time. How good are they going to be? How good would you be at speaking English at 30, 31, 32 if you didn't speak it and were discouraged from listening to it/reading it until you were 30? And then you could only try to speak it when a specific person agreed, and only for as long as they allowed?

Remember when you and your wife were dating? It was really difficult to keep your hands off each other. You wanted her and she wanted you. That felt so good. It was awesome. There’s no better feeling than being desired. After marriage, and particularly after having kids, things have a way of changing. You are still ready to go every night, but she’s not. What happened? You feel like you rarely have sex anymore, and when you do, it feels like she’s doing you a favor.

Here's what happened: You got trapped. She did a bait and switch. She treated sex as a loss leader. Now she has you, because if you leave, it will be huge, expensive mess.

You work out, you look good, but it doesn’t make a difference. You’re lost. This whole married sex thing was supposed to be different. Couples counseling might be something to consider for deeper insight. However, these 5 reasons your wife doesn’t want sex will help you understand and show you what to do.

Sure.

1. She doesn’t feel connected to you.

While we feel more connected to our wives by having sex, our wives need to connect emotionally first.

Hmmm...

2. She doesn’t feel sexy.

Her body has changed since having kids.

"Why don't you want kids?!?"

3. Her sexual appetite is naturally not as strong as yours.

Studies show that over the course of a relationship, a woman’s desire for sex decreases while her desire for tenderness increases. The problem is that our desire for sex stays just as high as always. Even at its highest state, her appetite might not have been as high as yours and probably never will be.

Solution: Get a vasectomy. Don't marry. When a woman gets tired of sex, move on.

4. She is tired, stressed, or depressed.

Motherhood is exhausting, emotionally draining, and stressful.

Get a vasectomy.

5. She’s focused on being a mom, not a wife.

Women put a lot of pressure on themselves to be the perfect mom–to have it all together.

Get a vasectomy.

I mean, seriously. That writer claims that it's mostly because they had kids. So don't have kids. Except... well, first...

Dr. Laura included that "You have to talk with her about stuff that bores the crap out of you."

Sounds like a great life, right?

...OK, so the essay tells men all of these hoops they have to jump through, all this additional effort to put in, and that mothers are going to want sex less. And yet, it is AMAZING how far more women want to have more sex with free men, including guys they hardly know and who hardly know them, and that includes mothers. Plenty of women with children are banging every day, acting like they're in the circus act or a sexual stunt show. They even seem to be enthusiastic about it, eager to go whenever and wherever. That includes women in their 40s and 50s, with guys who haven't jumped through a bunch of hoops.

Maybe it's because they feel like they have to? Whatever the reason, clearly women can be sexual at a high level; it's when the man has signed a terrible state contract, and especially when he's has a child with her or as many more as she wanted, that things change.

Learn from this, guys. You like sex? You want a robust sex life? If that's important, get a vasectomy. Believe women. Move on when a woman is clearly no longer feeling it for you. Don't burden her! Move on to a woman who wants you. Consider running game. Don't marry. Definitely stay free.