Another calendar year is winding down to a close. Have you made
resolutions for 2018? Resolutions can be made at any time. You don't
need to wait for an arbitrary calendar date. I read somewhere that if
you can keep a new habit for 21 days, you're likely to keep it going.
It can also be helpful to make incremental changes. For example, if you
want to walk more, don't think you need to start walking a certain long
distance every day. Start with something and then add to it a little at a time.
But this entry is not about resolutions.
It is simply taking a moment to think about the year ending and think about the year ahead.
New
Years Eve and New Years Day have become popular proposal days, and
there are people who pick December 31 as their day to get married.
Guys, DO NOT fall into that trap!
As for me, I have kept active on Twitter
and I plan to keep active on this blog, because I find it therapeutic
and if I can help just one man have a better life, and to be better, than it will be worth it (in addition to how it helps me).
There
were some big things that happened this year. My wife's sibling and
in-law, who'd been living with us rent-free for almost two years, were
kicked out by my wife because my wife didn't think they were helping out
enough and didn't like their attitudes. We had to hospitalize one of our kids
in a psych ward (they were only there temporarily, but long enough) and
we're still dealing with finding the best therapy. There was at least
one other big change on which I might elaborate later.
I'm not
planning big changes for 2018. I plan to keep working and I plan to keep
trying to keep my wife from going off the rails again and keep tending
to my kids. Save for a concert I have tickets to already, I have nothing
planned for me that will be fun. I'll be happy if life doesn't get much worse.
A few notes about media from this past year. Hugh Hefner died,
as I predicted he would (two other people I predicted would die in 2017
haven't - yet). Some people tried to tie Hefner in to all of the men
doing everything from sending unsolicited crotch shots
to sexual harassment to rape in the entertainment industry. At the
other end of the spectrum, the head of a Protestant ministry, the
Christian Research Institute, left Protestantism for Eastern Orthodoxy
while staying put at the ministry, which I consider to be a bad move on
his part (not necessarily joining the EOC, but keeping his position in a
Protestant ministry). Then there was Tom Leykis continuing to pass
along his astute observations on the unfolding demise of the corporate
terrestrial radio industry while threatening to end his own Internet-based show unless he got enough subscribers by the end of the year.
Do you have observations for 2017? Plans or predictions for 2018? I always welcome comments. I hope you have a great 2018.
A look at the world from a sometimes sarcastic, tongue-in-cheek, decidedly American male perspective. Lately, this blog has been mostly about gender issues, dating, marriage, divorce, sex, and parenting via analyzing talk radio, advice columns, news stories, religion, and pop culture in general. I often challenge common platitudes, arguments. and subcultural elements perpetuated by fellow Evangelicals, social conservatives. Read at your own risk.
Thursday, December 28, 2017
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