Whether you're a regular reader or you just happened to find this blog today, I wanted to leave this message to last through the holidays, until I'm updating this blog regularly again.
Men matter.
If you're a man, you matter.
Your needs matter.
What you want matters.
If you're a father of a minor child, what your child needs should take more priority than what you want.
If you're a father of a minor child, what your child needs should take more priority than what you want.
If you don't have minor children but are married, it is OK to leave a bad state contract you signed when you were delusional or ignorant. If it is early on in the marriage, staying longer can make things worse for you at an increasing rate.
If you're engaged, you're probably better off breaking the engagement (or, delaying a wedding date until she gets fed up and leaves).
If you are thinking of proposing, you probably shouldn't. You don't need a wife.
Shacking up is generally a terrible idea. Don't move in with a woman, and don't let her move in with you.
Get a vasectomy.
Especially if you haven't gotten a vasectomy, don't date mothers of minor children. And if you have minor children, they shouldn't be meeting any new lover of yours until later.
Stay free.
If you want to date, you can run game. DO NOT even flirt with anyone from work.
Build up an emergency fund if you don't have one.
You have something to contribute to the world. The better off you are, the more you are able to contribute.
If you're engaged, you're probably better off breaking the engagement (or, delaying a wedding date until she gets fed up and leaves).
If you are thinking of proposing, you probably shouldn't. You don't need a wife.
Shacking up is generally a terrible idea. Don't move in with a woman, and don't let her move in with you.
Get a vasectomy.
Especially if you haven't gotten a vasectomy, don't date mothers of minor children. And if you have minor children, they shouldn't be meeting any new lover of yours until later.
Stay free.
If you want to date, you can run game. DO NOT even flirt with anyone from work.
Build up an emergency fund if you don't have one.
You have something to contribute to the world. The better off you are, the more you are able to contribute.
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