While this is written from my perspective, it can work for the man in your life who is a husband and father, especially if he’s your husband or your father.
The best gifts for me as a husband and dad are, in no particular order:
1. Experiences I don’t have to plan, will enjoy, and don’t require I be constantly looking after someone. Maybe it a tour of a place he’ll enjoy? Maybe a getaway? A meal at a special place? A cruise? A sporting event or concert?
2. “Homemade.” This can be anything from artwork to food/treat; something you have reason to believe I’ll enjoy. Custom ties, socks, undershirts, etc. can fulfill this. Something with the personal touch from the wife and/or kids.
3. Something I’ll enjoy/use but wouldn’t indulge myself by buying because I have responsibilities to my family.
Especially as a sole income earner, stuff I can and usually will buy for myself isn’t as good.
“Giving” your husband something sexual you used to do with him but stopped and only will do as a special occasion gift is insulting. You should be doing it anyway, if you can.
Conversely, if there’s something he’s wanted but you’ve never done with/for him before, initiating it as a gift can be great.
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