For all of you men who are not currently married, this is one of those times of the year family and certain cultural elements push you to marry.
One way is trying to make it seem like everybody gets married, that marriage should be your goal, and that only losers don’t marry.
Jewelry companies run ads promoting the ridiculous notion that engagement rings make perfect holiday gifts. There are legal reasons why that’s a terrible idea.
Don’t fall for the trap.
If you’re engaged, don’t let the manipulations during this time of year push you into signing a terrible state contract (marrying).
Nor should you make any large purchases for, or with a woman. Want to buy something for your mother? Go ahead. But not a fiancée, not a girlfriend, or any other woman you’ve been seeing.
Don’t propose. Don’t co-sign a lease or mortgage or anything. Don’t move in with a woman or let her move in with you.
Stay free.
Follow the tags for this post, like “Free Men” and “Marriage Strike” and “Running Game” to be reminded why you should stay free and how to make the most of this time of year.
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