Men, how are you doing? Did you make it through Thanksgiving? The December holidays? New Year’s Eve?
The worst case scenario would be that you married.
If you did, keep in mind that in some places, every two days you’re married adds another day of alimony. Ten years means lifetime alimony. Watch out!
The next worst thing you could have done is humiliate yourself by proposing. Don’t marry. I wrote about breaking an engagement here.
Even if you’re not engaged, if you spent time with her on those special days, especially if you spent time with her friends or family or had her around yours, you need a course correction.
You should be scarce to any woman who is thinking she owns you or your future. If you’ve been seeing her regularly, especially if you’ve been taking her out to dinner or anything expensive, you shouldn’t be perpetuating that.
Do NOT make plans to be with her on February 14.
Be scarce and unreliable.
This is your life we’re talking about. Your money. Your time. Your freedom. Your peace. Don’t let those things slip away from you.
Want companionship? That’s what friends, dogs, or running game are for.
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