tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3917394.post4241953138978978357..comments2023-12-19T07:24:15.530-08:00Comments on Everything Must Go!: Why A Husband Prefers Wine to SexKenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06136254628511801417noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3917394.post-62603824725150237832010-07-29T05:21:08.827-07:002010-07-29T05:21:08.827-07:00The conditions I wrote about in this post - http:/...The conditions I wrote about in this post - <a href="http://tunasafedolphin.blogspot.com/2010/02/married-men-get-more-sex-part-one.html" rel="nofollow">http://tunasafedolphin.blogspot.com/2010/02/married-men-get-more-sex-part-one.html</a> - still exist. It's only happening about once a week, and mostly vanilla, lights off, and brief. I'm not happy about that, but some of the factors should be changing before too long, so hopefully things will get better.Kenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06136254628511801417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3917394.post-38781523780408640322010-07-28T21:29:58.878-07:002010-07-28T21:29:58.878-07:00Actually, Peter, things are somewhat lacking right...Actually, Peter, things are somewhat lacking right now. More on that later.Kenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06136254628511801417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3917394.post-30011126346366694732010-07-28T19:50:21.620-07:002010-07-28T19:50:21.620-07:00Happily my husband has never said that he prefers ...Happily my husband has never said that he prefers wine to sex. Obviously there are some pretty major problems in this relationship. I agree that some can and do come to an agreement where sex is no longer a large part of their marriage. Personally I find that sad. I think you hit on the major reasons this may be the case. If she cared enough to write Dear Abby she should have cared enough to ask WHY? Or maybe she already knows the answer.snowflakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04976463022836498694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3917394.post-34001721155205862982010-07-28T18:14:07.796-07:002010-07-28T18:14:07.796-07:00Ken, I know you have a great marriage with great s...Ken, I know you have a great marriage with great sex, but I can sympathize with this guy. He's probably just tired of all the games you have to play and the constant rejection.<br /><br />To quote the title character in a British comedy movie called Shirley Valentine, "I think sex is like supermarkets, you know, overrated. Just a lot of pushing and shoving and you still come out with very little at the end."Peterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07413174463075185720noreply@blogger.com