tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3917394.post3375925133595725967..comments2023-12-19T07:24:15.530-08:00Comments on Everything Must Go!: Men Should Protect ThemselvesKenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06136254628511801417noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3917394.post-66205672903596901582018-05-04T10:15:50.870-07:002018-05-04T10:15:50.870-07:00Was that intended for me? A married man? I have no...Was that intended for me? A married man? I have no contempt or women, but it's interesting if you think that men protecting themselves from being defrauded and taken advantage of have "contempt" for women.Kenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06136254628511801417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3917394.post-46811586992036480592018-05-02T10:31:14.806-07:002018-05-02T10:31:14.806-07:00You clearly have nothing but contempt for women. W...You clearly have nothing but contempt for women. Which will work out for you, since with that attitude, you'll be single forever. Karmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05040913828765736650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3917394.post-78261663220560053852017-08-12T11:41:19.213-07:002017-08-12T11:41:19.213-07:00Read the first lines of your two paragraphs.
They...Read the first lines of your two paragraphs.<br /><br />They're contradictory in implication, right?<br /><br />My observation is that most women are solipsistic, that everything in the world matters only as it relates to them.... to one degree or another. Often to a very large degree. Solipsists tend not to be the best people.<br /><br />Also, most if not all women love the utility of a man more than the man himself. Hence "job" being a women's number one qualification. This is no better than beauty being men's. Worse perhaps.<br /><br />The average man does well to keep the average woman at arm's length. The juice is nice and all, but it ain't worth the squeeze. <br /><br /><br /><br />HughMBehaviorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01103723722627845964noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3917394.post-19507404421805911002016-03-01T14:44:42.162-08:002016-03-01T14:44:42.162-08:00Snowflake, I completely agree with Ken's comme...Snowflake, I completely agree with Ken's comments. And I also agree with you that all individuals should protect themselves, however that doesn't eliminate the true damage that women can do and do act upon more than you will acknowledge when tricking a man into children, marriage, and then divorce. After all wives initiate most divorces (70 to 90% of the time). <br /><br />Before you argue that wives initiate divorces because the men are crappy.....Look up same sex divorce on Wikipedia and the supporting information. Worldwide where studies have been done on lesbian marriages and gay marriages, lesbians divorce at least twice as often as gay male couples. TWICE. Further, even if she is initiating a divorce for legitimate reasons, the question has to be asked "If she had a brain, shouldn't she have better selected a mate to whom she was committing?" None of this is to say there aren't men creating issues in a relationship, rather it is to reinforce that men are, by far, more likely to remain committed to a relationship than women. But it is women who are portrayed in popular culture - very inaccurately - as relationship experts and those who keep relationships together. The statistics speak otherwise.<br /><br />Beyond trapping a man in pregnancy, women can destroy a man financially in a divorce. Women lie that we men are abusive, physically and sexually, in the divorce process to retain custody, gain the financial upper hand, and destroy their ex, while we men simply don't have the same power of manipulation in the family courts. Further, men seldom seek or win alimony that women often seek and gain, even when feminism cries out for "equality".<br /><br />Yes women should protect themselves, but men should all the more.DarthWnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3917394.post-91572913091702330642008-04-24T10:22:00.000-07:002008-04-24T10:22:00.000-07:00Ken, I actually agree with you that men should pro...Ken, I actually agree with you that men should protect themselves - I believe that ALL individuals should. In fact, I have written on paternity suits, father's rights and other issues. I believe that individuals should have equal control over their reproductive choices and outcomes, but in our society, the pendulum seems to swing from men being in control to women being in control. As I woman, I obviously prefer the later. <BR/>My issue with your post was the general characterization of women. It inspired me actually. Look for something on this topic on my blog tomorrow. <BR/>I really enjoy reading. Sometimes I laugh, sometimes I get irritated, often I agree, but I always enjoy reading.snowflakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04976463022836498694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3917394.post-91256908216884025882008-04-24T10:12:00.000-07:002008-04-24T10:12:00.000-07:00Hi snowflake...>>It doesn't seem like you have a v...Hi snowflake...<BR/><BR/>>>It doesn't seem like you have a very high opinion of unmarried women.<<<BR/><BR/>I don’t have anything against unmarried women, per se. In fact, most of the women I dated were unmarried. My wife was unmarried and had never been married when I started dating her.<BR/><BR/>>>I agree that some women have resorted to unsavory tactics in order to "snag" their man,<<<BR/><BR/>Those are the ones of which I don’t have a high opinion.<BR/><BR/>>>but it is hardly the majority<<<BR/><BR/>That is debatable. Either way, there are enough that men need to protect themselves.<BR/><BR/>>>and let's not even discuss the underhanded tricks men resort to just to get lucky....<<<BR/><BR/>I’m not saying men don’t lie or misrepresent themselves to get lucky. Of course plenty do. But my advice was to men who date women. No matter how underhanded a man is, though, he can never call up a woman and surprise her with “I’m pregnant” or perpetuate a destructive, expensive lie such as “The baby is yours.” Women have the power in these areas. Men only retain any power by protecting themselves and saying “no” to whatever… no to marriage, no to shacking up, no to sex without a condom, no to sex at all, no to dating, no I won’t pay for that for you.<BR/><BR/>>>It's a difficult world out there for those truly seeking a life mate. It's like finding a needle in a haystack.<<<BR/><BR/>Very true. Thankfully, all someone who is looking for a life mate needs is to find one suitable needle. It helps to know exactly what you’re looking for. Makes it easier to recognize them when you find them.<BR/><BR/>Snowflake, men should protect themselves. So should women.Kenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06136254628511801417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3917394.post-9120420171657248552008-04-24T06:53:00.000-07:002008-04-24T06:53:00.000-07:00It doesn't seem like you have a very high opinion ...It doesn't seem like you have a very high opinion of unmarried women. I agree that some women have resorted to unsavory tactics in order to "snag" their man, but it is hardly the majority and let's not even discuss the underhanded tricks men resort to just to get lucky....<BR/><BR/>It's a difficult world out there for those truly seeking a life mate. It's like finding a needle in a haystack.snowflakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04976463022836498694noreply@blogger.com